Stay positive, consistent, and strong in your conviction.As seen on OPRAH, bestselling author/relationship expert Susan Winter (Allowing Magnificence and Older Women/Younger Men) specializes in evolutionary forms of loving partnership and higher thinking.

So she won’t need to be with you all the time in the same way a younger woman might.

Be respectful of her wishes and you’ll appreciate the time you spend much more. He has clients all over the world and is the author of 8 best selling dating books, including the Amazon Number One best seller Online Dating Guide “I will Make You Click!

As a woman ages into her 30s, 40s and 50s, her physical appearance will no longer look the same as she did when she was in her 20s.

This may begin to eat away at the confidence that she has in her sex appeal.

There’s no point in trying to intellectually stimulate her or have deep and meaningful conversations with her, because she can get that from men her own age.

She is looking for someone who can give her the thrill and experience that men used to provide her before everything became so predicable and dull.

Don’t make it hard work for her to communicate with you.

Seduce her with your words – take the necessary time to write text messages that play with humor, images, and fantasies.

Lucia is a dating/relationship expert specializing in Cougar relationships, author of “Lucia’s Lessons of Love”, former host of “The Art of Love” on L. A and the KTLA News who called her “The Queen of The Cougar Jungle”. Often younger guys try to outmatch the older guy, by pretending to be more experienced, worldly, wisely and even successful than he is.