He’ll be sweet and loving and attentive when you’re around.Unfortunately, the moment you’re not with him, he may act distant and cold when you call. This can set up a bit of a vicious cycle, as most women will immediately try to figure out what they’ve done wrong and end up trying to get him to agree to another date so they can get that special feeling back again. This means they only seem happy if you’re playing along to the way they want things done.However, if you show him that you’re falling for him, he’ll begin to act irritable or begin to withdraw from you.

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It could just be a coincidence, or he could be camping out online in an attempt to meet as many women as possible.

Online players love attention, so why would they want to chat with one girl if they could be talking to six or seven?

To avoid getting burned, here are 14 tips to easily identify a player.

The smooth operator at the club, the guy who has impeccable style and oozes confidence when he asks for your number…players generally abide by a certain m.o. If you can’t see him, how can you tell if you’re being played?

So what happens if you do find a guy who seems great while you’re chatting, but ends up being a player?

How can you know if he’s seeing more than one woman at once?

Unfortunately, some men have learned how much easier it is for them to meet more women, too.

While most men on online dating sites have good intentions, there are those predators out there willing to get whatever they can from whoever will allow them, and usually with more than one woman at a time.

The whole thing seems so fake…probably because it is. I received an email like this once and promptly shot off an annoyed “Wow, that was original” response.

The guy in question emailed me again and said he didn’t have time to write out personalized emails to girls online.

So, he was telling me I wasn’t worth a personalized email yet he still wanted my number?