At first glance, Medellin women do not perceive me as a foreigner due to the way I look.

So I do not have that instant “gringo effect” on them.

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D.) I started to read about this subject back in high school.

It is not about being petulant or rude, it’s about being confident (comfortable in your own skin.) I meet women in Medellin by just living my life.

This has proven to be essential for me when picking up women in Medellin. Socially, women are a little different than the southern California women I was used to picking up.

It is not usual for women in Medellin to go out by themselves just to let loose.

Hot Medellin girls are not the sole reason for this rise in tourism to “The City of Eternal Spring”, but it is definitely up there.

Furthermore, I am aware of the underworld of sex tourism in Colombia and I know that there are many strip clubs and brothels in Medellin; however, strippers and prostitutes are not the types of girls that I date, nor is it something I would like to promote, therefore, I will not be referring to that in this post. My situation is a little different than most foreigners here in Colombia.

Penetrating that group of friends, playing “the game” in order to get to your “target girl” is hard work, and sometimes does not work if you don’t speak Spanish well enough for her to understand.

Many guys who come to Colombia cannot pick up girls in their own native language let alone in Spanish and some even have the audacity to say that the women here are just “gold diggers” or “too difficult” and that is not accurate at all.

Do not even get me started on the gym, it is almost like a circus sideshow in there.