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Begin slideshow Steve Harvey developed Delightful, an online dating service for women to make them "more dateable." Right.

Because women are the problem, not men who have been divorced twice, married a woman with whom they cheated on their second spouse, and think mustaches are a good idea.

Do this by acknowledging what she’s saying by listening actively and showing her that you’re listening with your words.

When she’s finished speaking, sum up the emotional core of what she’s just said, then give your take on it. Then, at a high point in the interaction, open your phone, ready to take her number.

This is where you’re most likely to find guys who claim to be nice, or 30-year-old males with respectable professions, who in reality are way past 30 and live in their mom’s basement.

Maybe that’s what you’re looking for, but that’s definitely not my cup of tea.

Start Off Being Playful I talk to a lot of men who make a common mistake: They start by asking questions about a woman. This is because you are demanding personal information from a person you don’t know in a setting that is inherently stressful. This puts the momentum on your side, while also getting her to relax and loosen up a bit.

Even seemingly innocuous questions like “Do you like this bar? Soon she’ll have no problem sharing personal information with you.

” These questions work because they allow her to share as much information about herself as she’s comfortable with.