Also, Kaitlyn: why do you have birds tattooed on your arms if you're so afraid of them??Find deals on escape room experiences near you on Groupon. (More specifically: dark chocolate-covered cashews, dark chocolate-covered raisins, dark chocolate-covered espresso beans, dark chocolate-covered nonpareils, and more.)Get it from Nordstrom for . Otherwise, there are tons of other prints—including the Millennium Falcon, the Slinky Dog, Mickey Mouse, and a plunger—available.

Here are some things to consider when looking for the perfect gift for that newly-anointed "someone special" in your life. If you notice her hands are always cold, consider a pair of red gloves. Consider handmade cards or greenery from your garden.

Perhaps your gift can be an outing that you enjoy rather than a material good.

If she's into music, make her a compilation of songs by your favorite obscure bands. Consider a membership to an art museum in your city, a pair of tickets to a local film festival, dance lessons or a cooking class. You don't need to gush if gushing isn't your style, but do use this opportunity to make yourself a little vulnerable and say something you haven't yet.

Compliment her sense of humor, work ethic, beauty, intelligence, creativity--whatever it is that charms you is fair game for compliments.

One of my favorite moments on The Bachelorette was when Kaitlyn Bristowe and Ben Z.

went to an escape room which the producers had cruelly stocked with birds, knowing them to be Kaitlyn's ultimate fear.

You've defined the relationship—but not much else—so this probably isn't the time for a Philippe Patek watch (but also not the moment for a gift that's small and thoughtless.) Ahead, 15 gifts that strike the perfect balance.

I've written an ode to this incense before, and the fact remains: it's awesome.

My (female) best friend and my (male) boyfriend have it, so I can anecdotally confirm that people of at least two genders are into it. Even if you're not exclusive, you probably don't want them to get hurt in a bike crash, right?