The truth is, though, that I'm not getting any younger, and at this rate, I'll be lucky if we finalize the divorce before I'm ninety. But I feel like my baggage takes up freight cars, and not a lot of guys will want to cross those tracks. How do you get past thinking of yourself as someone's potential problem?

Then I get to date and hope some guy out there who likes a forty-something woman and can deal with my crazy-making chatterbox autistic boy, my overwhelming pile of debt, my trust issues and whatever else rears it's ugly head to make the process even more difficult. And it makes me feel even lonlier to think that way.

This entire genre of apps has in effect turned your local dog park, museum, mall, and crowded train station into a gigantic "singles" bar (though not everyone is single). And if you have traditionally been the kind of person too shy to make the first move -- no worries, as long as your app is open it is actively signaling your availability, so it won't be long before someone finds you. And just as bad, two guys I genuinely liked dating dumped me when they found me cruising Grindr while they were in the other room making dinner or on the phone. But I still haven't been able to put the thing away and stay away.

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And, as with all addictions, whether to substances or behaviors, the consequences to the active abuser can be profound. If you're devoted to finding a spouse or long-term partner, a traditional dating website is probably a much better option than Blendr.

Rico, a 32-year-old gay guy, had this to say about his experience: Just after a friend introduced me to Grindr, by the end of the first week, without giving it much thought, I'd had three previously unknown sex partners over to my place. If you are in a primary relationship and looking to cheat -- apps likely are your fastest route to sex and potential relationship problems.

Regardless of your situation or goal, remember that when using these apps, as do all technologies that involve intensely pleasurable activities, caution should be exercised, particularly by anyone who has a history of losing themselves in escalating, obsessive quests for sexual intensity.

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The more sizable and interesting the nearby crowd, the better your shot at finding partners. I found myself leaving the app on all the time and big surprise, my life quickly became all about the search for sex.

As such, any jam-packed venue is now a prime cruising spot for app-aware people looking to get laid. Within three months I ended up getting fired for sneaking out of work to hook up.

In a heartbeat Grindr became my #1 distraction from stress, tedium, and loneliness, but it also quickly replaced dating and most of my social life. But do remember to 'play safe', especially if you're planning to keep this secret from a spouse.

If your primary interest is casual sex, sex locator smartphone apps will likely fit the bill.

With sex apps there's no muss, no fuss, just the act itself and a handshake on the way out, thank you very much.

Megan, a single medical student in her mid-20s, talks about her sex app experience: When out at a club a few months ago I decided to give one of these apps a try and turned on Blendr.

Yesterday, I was listening to David, who has been such a chatterbox lately - he's gotten maddening, honestly.